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Patience. This word has come up for me on multiple occasions since the COVID-19 outbreak. This pandemic is changing the dating game for the better because it is forcing couples to take things slow.
To really take the time to get to know each other, learn more about each other, without the pressure of having that ‘perfect first date’.
Taking time to woo each other, connecting emotionally, rather than physically, and meeting up after anticipation has been built.
Let’s look at some of the ways in which coronavirus has changed the dating game, and how those changes might benefit your new relationship.
You Have More Time To Talk
A lot of people are working in home offices, and some have shorter working hours. This means you have more time on your hands. No need to get dressed for work in the morning, stress about keeping appointments.
When using a dating website, feel free to cover as many topics as you like and only discuss what you feel comfortable with. Being your authentic self and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
Do not be afraid to share your experiences, show your true character and reveal your wants and wishes. This will go a long way in deepening that emotional connection.
Slow Things Down
In these times of quarantine, lockdown and less physical availability, the dating process slows down to a point where you don’t feel that need to rush. At times, we like someone so much that we want everything to happen all at once. Enjoy and savour the getting to know you time. It will help your connection to deepen on so many levels. Never worry about the things you cannot control.
Gain that attachment to your partner slowly. Lust happens quickly but fades just as fast. To all the women out there, allow the man to court you. It’s a beautiful thing and you deserve it. Slow it down.
Allow Technology To Work In Your Favor
Have you heard of the term ‘vibe check’? It’s spontaneous and usually random time where someone checks your vibe.This is what singles are using through video chat to see if they connect with someone.
So here’s how it goes. You meet a guy on a dating site, you like his pictures, his profile, you get along great, but you are still not sure about the üerson you are writing with. So you decide to hop on a video call to check their vibe. See how the conversation flows, if he makes you laugh. It is great because you get to see them in their personal space and get a feel for who they are and what they are about. Technology helps in changing the dating game,s o use it to your advantage.
Adapting To The New Normal
Surely online dating is not new, however the new normal is enjoying the benefits of online dating and using apps and websites to find what you are looking for without the physical.
Once the pandemic subsides, people will be out and about, meeting up in person. The great advantage of this is that you will have built that wonderful emotional connection with a person you care about.
Everything that comes after that is a bonus. No first date jitters, no worrying about saying the wrong things anymore. Hopefully this new way of dating will lead you to a happier and more fulfilling, lasting partnership.
Is The Coronavirus Changing The Dating game For You?
Have you dated online, fallen in love even? Are you currently in an online relationship and loving every moment of it? How do you think this pandemic is changing the dating game?
Share with me in the comments section below.
